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The Relationship Is Real. So Are the Struggles.

Support for partners of ADHD adults — because understanding is a two-way street.

You’re doing your best to keep everything running — managing schedules, smoothing over tension, and trying to stay patient… even when you feel alone in it.


Living with and loving someone with ADHD can be confusing, exhausting, and isolating — especially when it feels like no one sees what you carry behind the scenes.


That’s where I come in.


I help partners like you make sense of the emotional patterns, communication gaps, and daily struggles that ADHD can create in relationships. Through practical tools and honest, compassionate insight, we work together to reduce resentment, rebuild connection, and help you feel like you’re on the same team again.


You don’t have to carry it all alone — and you’re not wrong for needing support, too.

Here’s how we can work together:

Clarity & Connection Session

Is It ADHD or Personality? Making Sense of Us

The Connected Partner Program

  

 Feeling stuck in overwhelm?
This private 90-minute coaching session is for partners, family members, or leaders who want to untangle ADHD dynamics and get immediate, actionable strategies. We’ll create a custom plan to help you move from frustration to clarity—without burning yourself out. 

Book Your Clarity & Connection Session

The Connected Partner Program

Is It ADHD or Personality? Making Sense of Us

The Connected Partner Program


 For partners & families supporting ADHD adults.
This self-paced program is designed to help you understand how ADHD affects your relationship, set boundaries without guilt, and improve emotional connection. You’ll walk away with tools to care for your partner—and yourself—with more confidence. 

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Is It ADHD or Personality? Making Sense of Us

Is It ADHD or Personality? Making Sense of Us

Is It ADHD or Personality? Making Sense of Us

 

A Clarity & Insight Session for Couples Navigating ADHD & Personality Differences.
When ADHD is part of the relationship, it can be hard to tell what’s really going on.
One of you might feel scattered or misunderstood.
The other might feel exhausted, unsure how much more they can carry.

You’ve likely asked yourself:
Is this ADHD? Is this just how they are? Or is it me?

This 3 session partner program is here to help you both make sense of the patterns — without blame, without burnout, and without guessing.

Book a Making Sense of Us Session

Not sure where to start? We've got you.

 

Feeling unsure is okay. These answers are here to guide you forward, one step at a time.

Yes! Most of my clients are new to coaching. If you’re feeling stuck navigating ADHD at home or at work, I’ll meet you right where you are—no previous coaching experience needed. 


Not at all. Whether or not there’s an official diagnosis, if ADHD traits are creating tension or overwhelm, this work can help you make sense of the dynamics and take action. 


Then you are right where you need to be! 

That’s exactly why I created these services. I help people who are exhausted from trying to support others through ADHD. You’ll walk away with tools to care for yourself and improve your connection with the person or team you’re supporting.


 

When ADHD is in the mix, relationships can feel confusing, one-sided, or emotionally draining — even when there’s deep love at the core.


This 90-minute Clarity & Connection Session is designed to support you as the partner, loved one, or support person of someone with ADHD — especially if you’re feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, or unsure how to move forward.


Whether you’re neurotypical or have ADHD yourself, this session is about giving you space to understand the patterns playing out in your relationship — and how ADHD may be influencing them in ways you haven’t been told.


Most people come into this session feeling confused, disconnected, or emotionally drained — unsure if what they’re experiencing is “normal,” or how much is actually related to ADHD.

You’ll leave with a better understanding of:

  • Why certain patterns keep repeating (and how ADHD might be playing a role)
     
  • What’s truly within your control — and what isn’t
     
  • Language to express how you feel, without shame or blame
     
  • Tangible steps to reconnect with your partner or set boundaries with love
     

This session is about pulling things out of the emotional fog and giving you the tools — and perspective — to move forward with more compassion and less guesswork.

Whether or not your partner is on the same page, this is a space for you to be heard, supported, and equipped.


This session is designed to give you both a chance to pause, reflect, and make sense of how ADHD and personality differences might be showing up in your relationship — without judgment, and without pressure to fix everything in one conversation.

Here’s how it works:

  1. Before the session, each of you completes a short DISC personality assessment and a few simple reflection questions.
    This helps us get a feel for how you each tend to communicate, respond to stress, and express your needs — which can often get tangled up when ADHD is part of the picture.
     
  2. Then we meet for a 90-minute coaching session together.
    We’ll talk through the patterns you’re experiencing, explore what might be ADHD-related vs. personality-driven, and uncover where misunderstandings or emotional friction tend to show up.
     
  3. Afterward, I’ll send you a personalized “Making Sense of Us” Summary.
    This includes highlights from your DISC results, key insights from our session, and practical suggestions you can carry forward in your day-to-day relationship.
     

There’s no pressure to perform, no “good” or “bad” personality types — just an honest, supportive look at what’s really happening between you, and what could shift with more clarity and compassion.

This session meets you where you are — whether you’re feeling stuck, curious, or just want to understand each other better.


How We Can Help You and Your Partner Thrive

At Relate Well NL, we understand that ADHD affects both the individual and the relationship. That’s why our approach focuses on relational intelligence — helping partners build empathy, reduce conflict, and reconnect as a team.


We work with you to:


  • Understand ADHD through a relational lens.
    Learn how ADHD shapes emotions, communication, and behavior — and how to recognize what’s ADHD and what’s your partner’s personality.
     
  • Create healthier communication patterns.
    We’ll help you and your partner move from reactive conversations to open, respectful dialogue — without blame or shame.
     
  • Balance responsibility.
    Many couples with ADHD fall into imbalanced roles. We help you redistribute the “mental load” in ways that feel supportive and sustainable.
     
  • Restore trust and closeness.
    By developing mutual understanding and practical strategies, we help you move from frustration to partnership.
     
  • Navigate challenges with empathy.
    Whether it’s emotional regulation, memory issues, or executive function struggles, we help you respond to your partner’s ADHD with compassion, not criticism.
     

Learn About Our Partner Sessions

Let’s explore how to build more ease, trust, and understanding in your relationship. 

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You don’t have to do this alone. I’m here to help.

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